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In A Instant, It Changes….

So I started out my day like I usually do, a cup of java and log on the computer. Nice morning, around 12:30 I get a phone call from my step-brother that my dad was taken to the hospital, he couldn’t walk. That’s when I felt the bottom drop out.

I live over an hour away, so D leaves work, gets me and Miss Priss and we head to the hospital, picking up my sister on the way. We didn’t have a clue as his condition, so you can imagine how worried we were. Oh, did I mention that the reason we didn’t know was because my dad’s wife refused to call me or my sister? Yeah, but that’s a whole other story.

Dad was in the ER when we arrived, but they were getting ready to move him up to a room. I stepped out to speak to the nurse as I wasn’t told anything when we got there. She explained the doctor could come to talk to us, I just looked at her, told her I wasn’t even called that my father was rushed in, the look of shock on that nurses face was what I had been feeling since I received that phone call, she hugged me and told me that he had had a stroke, they found a small bleed and will run more tests to see if any blockage was involved. I couldn’t thank that ER nurse enough for caring and having a heart.

Dad is resting, he’s in no pain, just uncomfortable. He has significant weakness on his right side, his speech isn’t effected that much. He’ll be ok, I’m sure of it. I have to be. I, on the other hand, am a wreck.

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9 Comments on “In A Instant, It Changes….”

Mar
said:
February 29th, 2008 at 2:15 am

shock Oh, Yellow Rose, I am so sorry about this!! Get~well wishes to your dad and ((((hugs)))) to you!
I can’t believe your dad’s wife behavior…


Bethany
said:
February 29th, 2008 at 9:02 am

Oh, how scary! I’ll be praying for him.


Melli
said:
February 29th, 2008 at 9:54 am

Ohhhhhh YR… I’m so sorry. Your dad is surely in my prayers — strokes are NO fun – I’m glad his was a small one! I’m sure there’s more to the story with the wife — there always is where families are concerned…. I will pray for forgiveness and reconciliation all around and hope that covers whatever is going on.


Jane
said:
February 29th, 2008 at 10:06 am

Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry. {{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} I am praying for you and your dad. I just wish I could be there with you. Just know, I am there with you in spirit.
Love you!


Char
said:
February 29th, 2008 at 4:58 pm

I am so sorry about your dad. He is in my prayers as are you.


February 29th, 2008 at 7:39 pm

Oh no I am so sorry to read this YR, hugs to you. What a shock I am sure.


Katherine
said:
February 29th, 2008 at 11:29 pm

I saw “Yellow Roses Garden” and had to pop over to see another yellow rose lover!

I’m sorry about your father, may he recover rapidly.

Katherine
Yellow Rose Arbor


March 1st, 2008 at 12:51 pm

I’ll keep you all in my prayers. HUGS!!


Jennifer
said:
March 1st, 2008 at 12:55 pm

I’m SO sorry, girl ( I hope Dad makes a quick recovery…but that extra stress has got to be hard. Keep us updated, OK? ((hugs))


 
 

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